Two Great Baby Tips

I had a great idea for a blog: write about three of my best baby tips. But there was a problem, I could only think of two tips. So here you go. Two never-fail, good-advice-in-any-situation tips! Seriously, everybody in the universe who takes care of a baby should use this advice!

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1. I remember my mom pinching my tummy in the zipper of my footie pajamas. In high school a friend caught my lip in my zipper as they zipped up my coat collar. Here is a way to never zip your baby’s skin in their footie pajamas.

Pinch the zipper handle between your thumb and index finger. Bend your middle finger around the top of the zipper head (the part that slides), planting your finger pad firmly on the base (the part that fests against your baby’s skin). As you slide the zipper up or down, your middle finger protects baby’s skin from getting zipped.

I used to only follow this trick while zipping up and I thought my kids would grow o a ripe old age without me ever having zipped them. But just this morning my wiggly toddler got pinched as I was unzipping him. So from now on I’ll be holding the middle finger guide in place both up and down.

2. I was having trouble finding the diaper rash ointment, we call it booty medicine, in my diaper bag and also in the basket where I keep diaper supplies. I didn’t want to root for it, so I’d start without it then when it turned out I did need it, ugh, it was somewhere at the bottom . Yada, yada, yada. So I thought to myself, “Why can’t I just keep the wipes and the booty medicine together?” AHA! I taped the ointment tube to the side of the pack of wipes! It has been working great. Be sure to tape it so the ointment lids opens away from the wipes (mine is a flip lid). My wipes go faster. So when they are gone, pull of the tape and tape the tube to the new package.
There you go. Enjoy a slobbery baby kiss! Live is good.

Celebrate a Little Victory

My kids’ piano teacher just told me this at our impromptu parent teacher conference. “Any time he makes the slightest improvement, I praise him to the skies.” With a more negative attitude I could have taken this as bleak news. But isn’t that exactly would I’m doing when I tell the baby how smart she is for biting her own toes?

Lately I’ve been joking that DD5mos sees every second she is awake as a small victory, except that I’m not really joking. Babies who stop napping at five months are no picnic.

However, when I take a minute to apply this idea to myself, as we should do with all wise words, I realize how ecstatic I would be every minute of the day if I got into a better habit of celebrating the little victories. Imagine this: “Yay! I finished a load of laundry!” as opposed to “Drat! I am nowhere near finishing the laundry today!”

Would that make a fantastic change in my attitude or what! I’m excited to try it this evening. I’m going to make a big deal about how beautiful my kids’ teeth are and how great their breath smells instead of complaining about the toothpaste in the sink.

Two Great Baby Tips

I had a great idea for a blog: write about three of my best baby tips. But there was a problem, I could only think of two tips. So I didn’t write the blog. But these two tips are too great to keep to myself. Two never-fail, good-advice-in-any-situation tips! Seriously, everybody in the universe who takes care of a baby should use this advice!

Three months old!

Three months old!

1. I remember my mom pinching my tummy in the zipper of my footie pajamas. In high school a friend caught my lip in the zipper of my coat collar. Perilous things these zippers. Here is a way to never zip your baby’s skin in their footie pajamas.

Pinch the zipper handle between your thumb and index finger, thumb on the bottom. Bend your middle finger around the front of the slider. Plant your middle finger pad firmly on the base of the slider. As you slide the zipper up or down, the first joint of your middle finger stays between the zipper and baby’s skin.

I used to only follow this trick while zipping up and I thought my kids would grow to a ripe old age without me ever having zipped them. But just this morning my wiggly toddler got pinched as I was unzipping him. So from now on I’ll be holding the middle finger guide in place both up and down.

2. I was having trouble finding the diaper rash ointment, we call it booty medicine, in my diaper bag and also in the basket where I keep diaper supplies all together in one spot Hint; do this if you haven’t already!). I didn’t want to root around for it, so I’d start the changing without it then when it turned out I did need it, ugh, it was somewhere at the bottom. So eventually I thought, “Why can’t I just keep the wipes and the booty medicine together?”

AHA! I taped the ointment tube to the side of the pack of wipes! It has been working great. Be sure to tape it so the ointment lid opens away from the wipes (mine is a flip top). My wipes got gone faster so I pulled them apart and taped the tube to the new package.

There you go. Actual fantastic ideas. Now go enjoy a slobbery baby kiss! Live is good.

Recipe for Tea Cakes

I made these with DS10. My kids love to make roll and cut type of cookies, but I think most sugar cookies taste terrible. These, however were simple, tasted great, and most important for him—they could be shaped. He chose heart-shaped cookie cutters, because “the secret ingredient is always ‘love’, Mom.” These tea cakes had a great texture, too.

The original recipe came from Southern Living 1984. I changed milk to lemon juice and omitted the vanilla. Also, the recipe says chill for hours or overnight. We didn’t do that, because that’s not how we roll, literally. We just squashed the dough flat with our hands and baked them right away. Good times.

    Tea Cakes

1 cup butter, softened
2 cups sugar
3 eggs
2 tablespoons lemon juice
5 cups all-purpose flour
1 teaspoon baking soda
additional sugar

Cream the top four. Stir in the next two. Use sugar instead of flour when you roll (or flatten) it. Be sure you put them on the baking sheet sugar side up! 350 degrees till edges are golden.

Bedtime Blessings

Baby sleeps in his own bed 2014I have a deep dark secret.

My two youngest kids sleep with me.  Now, I love sleeping with a newborn baby. Is there anything more luxurious than to cuddle up to that soft warmth and that clean baby smell? Listening to their quick steady breath simultaneously relaxes and revitalizes. There is just nothing better.

But. Yes here is the but. Things get problematic as this bundle of joy grows into a cyclone of tossing arms and legs and demands for midnight drinks. And I wake up immobilized in a sweatbox of my own making. DD5 sneaks in every night. Sometimes she doesn’t even wait till I’m in bed. And DS2 has slept with me since he was born. And I still might not mind, but Darling Baby is due in May, and I need space, mobility, and air circulation. I need to make a change.

I’m also hoping that DS2 already having his own bed will lessen any resentment he might feel. So we’ve started rearranging sleeping situations. And tonight is night one of operation Empty My Bed Before the New Baby Comes. So far, as you can see from the picture, so good.

I’m cautiously optimistic. DD8 and DD5 are crashed downstairs in the “girls’ room.” I’m not taking wagers on them making it through the night. But sometimes we moms have to take the win that we get. I’m off now to celebrate my roomy bed with some much-needed sleep. Good night.

10 Websites That Have My Kids Coming Back

My children, intellectual pursuants that they are, spend a lot of time on the computer. We’re computer geeks, what can I say. So here is an inconclusive list of some websites that caught their attention and have them coming back for more.

Warning: these first couple site are not educational, but are just for fun. Learning sites come next, don’t worry.

Club Penguin—my kids love this one. They play arcade type games, buy pom-pom type pets called puffles, and solve mysteries and super-spies. A few weeks ago DS7 chose a Club Penguin book from Barnes and Noble. They’ve been going here since DS20 introduced it to the family back when he was DS13. The younger kids 9, 7, 5 all have login avatars. We don’t have a membership so there are certain things they can’t do, but I’m fine with that. Check them out at www.clubpenguin.com.

Pokémon—DS9 loves Pokémon. It’s his older brother’s fault. On this site he can login and play games or they have, I think, every episode ever made. He watches his favorites, skips to the best part, then runs outside and reenacts the scene. Visit them here: www.pokemon.com/us.

Poptropica—this one is the fault of DD15. I don’t know the back story on how she found it, but she’s been playing games there for more than four years and has gotten logins for DS9 and DD7. It’s here at www.poptropica.com.

Now as promised here are the educational websites. Come on, you know I’m trying to squeeze a bit of learning in wherever I can.

Poisson Rouge—this is an innovative site. I heard about it online through another mom, and when I first went to investigate, I thought, “There’s no way they’re going to like this. I has no words.” But I showed it to them anyway, and what do you know, they love it. The first difference I noticed from the usual kid’s sites is that there is no saccharin excited voice telling them what to do on any given page. They just have to click around with the mouse and figure out what changes when they click where. The next thing you’ll start to notice is how an amazing amount of information is subtly woven into the vast number of pages on this site. It has vocabulary in multiple languages, music, science, art . . . Really just do yourself a favor and check it out. http://www.poissonrouge.com/enfants.php

Peep and the Big Wide World—this site is created around the same named science ed. Series. Peep is a chick who, with his friends, discovers new things about how the world works. The site has featured episodes, games and a lot more info if you want to pursue a specific lesson. It also cracks me up that it is narrated by Joan Cusack. Why does that crack me up? I’m not sure; she just does. Give Peep a peek here: http://www.peepandthebigwideworld.com/

Boowa and Kwala—I stumbled across this site as I searched for preschool songs about three years ago. It is based on Boowa the blue dog and Kwala the black-bereted, yellow koala. There are a lot of preschool and early elementary aged games, songs, and stories. Find it here: http://www.boowakwala.com/kids/boowakwala-home.html

I have to put a couple honorable mentions here.

www.starfall.com   was the first favorite website of DS9. It is how he learned his letters and their sounds. We don’t use this sight much right now, because DD5 is resisting learning and this site doesn’t try to pretend it isn’t teaching you anything. Nice reading and phonics stuff here. Now that DS2 is 2, he’ll be ready to start enjoying it. Or at least his little cousin who we watch twice a week might, since he is talking a lot more than my son.

I also like a lot of the games on www.lego.com, and virtual Legos don’t get left on the floor.

www.jumpstart.com This is the site to which I bought a membership, the one and only. Is that enough said? A couple of pros are the lifetime membership option: who wants to pay monthly for the next ten years. And the preschool through 2nd grade software you may have seen inn stores come as free downloads with your membership.

www.pbskids.org  My kids play quite a few games here. They especially like Martha Speaks and Dinosaur Train. I especially like Between the Lions.

What websites do you and  your child frequent?